About Me

I left an emotionally, mentally and physically abusive relationship a long time ago.
I wanted (needed) to leave without telling my 'then' husband because I knew if I tried to tell him I wanted to leave or wanted a divorce, the consequencies would be unbearable.

At best, I would have been beaten and thrown out with nowhere to go, at worst, I would lose my three children, this was never going to be an option, I would never risk losing them.

I was gradually going down and down, getting more an more depressed, humiliated and scared, I knew I had to devise another plan to get away because soon it would be too late.

I realised I would have to leave without him knowing, and without telling him.  This may seem like an impossible task, and indeed I can't say it was the easiest thing I've ever done, but where there's a will there's a way, and I've always believed we can achieve anything if we want it badly enough, and I badly wanted to escape.

I am well qualified in writing the book 'How To Escape Your Abusive Husband Without Him Knowing', because not only have I been there and 'bought the t-shirt', I've worn it out too !

All information is first hand, I have not researched this, or taken bits from other peoples articles or books, there is only one place that I've got the facts from and that's the dark recesses of my memory.

Dark it may be, but it is as fresh as if it was yesterday, I will never forget it.

I have always intended to write my experiences down in the hope it may help others going through similar situations, and to show them that they are not trapped, you can escape if you want it badly enough !

This book is not 'My Story', that is to follow soon, but it is a step by step guide for you to follow in order to escape your misery, reclaim your life and move on.

There is no such thing as 'one size fits all' and that applies to this book as well, there may be information, facts or advice that don't quite fit your circumstances, but you can tweak them a little to make them right for you.

I hope you enjoy the book and find it informative, inspirational and full of good advice.

To all of you who are going through the hell of an abusive relationship, I want you to know I feel your pain, and I send you love, comfort and above all, hope for the future.

Love to you all and God Bless you ...

Kitty Greene

(I hope you will agree the price of this book is very reasonable, it represents years of heartaches, worries and desperation.  I had to find out what worked and what didn't, what I could do and what I couldn't, what to say and what not to and when, all from bitter experiences and trial and error. I'm sure if you follow even some of the advice contained in the book you will consider it money well spent)