I am a survivor, I have survived and escaped the hell of an abusive relationship (twice!) so know it can be done, and I know what I'm talking about.
The first time was with three small children, and the second time I was alone.
If you are in an abusive/unhappy relationship, this book could help you to reclaim your life and move forward.
The book is now available for immediate download - the link is in the right hand sidebar.
In the meantime, these songs are for all of us who know the hell of living in an abusive relationship. I hope you draw strength from them.
Buffy Lawson wrote the first one from her own experiences, and afterwards several domestic violence organizations teamed up to make this song their anthem.
If you need inspiration ladies - this is it !
'Don't let any man treat you bad' - Buffy Lawson.
and if you need more - try this one
The
fact that you have landed on this page means that you are in an unhappy and/or
abusive relationship and are looking for a way out. You know you need to leave to save your
sanity, indeed your life. You’ve tried
everything you can to save or heal the marriage, but your partner just isn’t
interested or just doesn’t care. He has
already emotionally checked out.
You
feel alone and lonely, you need to do something, but what? which way do you turn? who do you turn to? who do you trust? who can
you trust ?
All
perfectly reasonable questions, but
right now you are not thinking clearly, and are not in the right emotional or rational state of mind to seek
out the answers. You are tired, you are
drained, you are done!
You
feel unwanted, unloved, neglected. Your
soul is crushed and your spirit destroyed.
I
have lived through this situation, twice, I know and feel your pain, I can help
and advise you how to leave this life-threatening situation, for make no
mistake, that is what it is.
I
am a lady of a ‘certain age’ I have dealt with this when I was younger, with
three small children to consider, and again in later life when there was just
myself, it was still hard, but not
impossible, and I survived to tell the tale.
All
my advice and help comes from personal experiences, NOT from books, or the
internet. I WILL NOT expect
you to part with your much needed money and then tell you to seek counselling,
consult your local church, vicar or marriage guidance. (By all means do these things if you think it
will help, but I’m assuming you’ve done all that and nothing has changed, and
you are now turning your thoughts to leaving).
Clearly
you are well past those things, or you wouldn’t be reading this right now.
I
am not a counsellor, I am a woman with first hand experience and knowledge of this subject. I have been through everything I write about,
not only bought the T-shirt, but worn it out !
Whether
you are a young Mum or an ‘empty nester’ or somewhere in-between, I can offer
help and guidance. My advice is down to
earth, practical and most importantly, ‘do-able’.
My
e-book is written in a no-nonsense, plain speaking style, nothing is ‘wrapped
up’ or sanitized. The situation you are
in right now needs to be addressed and met ‘head on’ in order for you to
understand if this is the route you wish to take.
I
start by telling you how to recognise different types of abuse, and go through
to advising you how to start compiling and implementing your plan to escape, with an extra
section on how to earn much needed money. There will be steps you can take immediately to put your plan into action.
It’s
not just a matter of packing a bag and walking out the door …. there’s more to
it than that, especially if you have children.
If your husband is violent, you must also consider your safety and that
of your children. There are also legal issues to consider.
In
compiling this book it has been my wish to help others who find themselves in
such an unhappy situation, it is my hope that I can not only help them to see
through the fog of problems but also guide them through it all and to cut out
much time trying to source information, facts and advice.
You may read the book and decide that you haven't reached the end of the road yet. Breaking up a marriage and family is not to be taken lightly and all steps should be taken to make sure you are doing the right thing.
Only you can decide ...
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